How To Curb Bad Behavior At School

ADHD and treatment is a very touchy subject. Many people are told that the only treatment for ADD ADHD is medication. I have tried to talk to these people and let them know that this isn't true, and then I get called all kinds of names. Because I have ADHD and I have dramatically reduced my symptoms, I know what works. I certainly do not use medication.

Be sure to pick your words carefully when praising your child's behavior or setting limits. Wow, you're having a great day today. You must have taken your meds! is a somewhat backhanded compliment. Better to say, Wow, you're trying really hard today. Nice job of paying attention, (or cleaning your room, sticking with a hard assignment, or staying in your seat). Without overdoing it, publicly praise as much as possible to bolster self-esteem and focus on your child's strengths. Be generous with the small but significant non-verbal cues of life a pat on the back here, a high-five there. You're spending a lot of time, effort, and spirit seeking treatment for the problem; just don't forget to nurture what's good about your child!!

There is no single test to diagnose ADHD. The doctor will do a physical exam of the child to make sure that no underlying condition, such as a hearing or vision problem, is causing ADHD-like symptoms. Still, a diagnosis of ADHD is based primarily on observations and reports of a child's behavior patterns. Your child's pediatrician may also refer you to a mental health professional who is experienced in childhood disorders such as ADHD.